Highway to the Danger Zone

Last night when a friend called and begged me to go to a Halloween party, I knew I couldn't use the old "I don't have a costume excuse".  She has seen my closet and knows I have a bedazzling addiction. After pulling old costumes and realizing I wasn't up for (or fitting in) the usual slutty attire, I took her "I need a wing woman" request to the literal level. 

I have to say, this was the easiest costume I have ever worn (no spanx needed) and I have never been hit on more in my life.  Just sayin amigos, highway to the danger zone paid off last night! Thank you Kenny Loggins!!! 

So if any of you need a last minute costume, do what I did.  Throw on a bomber jacket, a pair of aviators, some leggings, and motorcycle boots and don't miss out on what could be an amazing time! 

Xoxo 

Just in case you need a reason to smile today....

My little candy raver, Dolce. Happy Halloween!!!

You're not too nice...

I have a friend who is always saying, "I'm just too nice".  She complains about her salary, but has she asked for a raise? Nooooooo......she's "too nice".  She complains about her sister and mom being rude and nasty to her, but has she told them that their comments are abrasive and hurt her feelings? Nope, she's just way "too nice" (wah wah waaaaaaaah).

This just in.....Complaining and whining about people behind their backs is not being too nice. It's called being passive aggressive and whimpy.  Telling someone not to belittle you, etc is not rude or mean. There are endless ways to let someone know they cannot walk all over you in a professional, tactful manner. 

Bottom line....whining isn't attractive, whimpy isn't nice, and neither of these traits burn calories!!! And I would much rather be known as a strong bitch than a wimpy girl.

Ok, I'm off my soap box now! Let's all have a great weekend!!! Xoxox